The big picture
Several warnings share a concern for dangers that grow through choices. A son is urged to escape a rash financial pledge, learn steady work from ants, and reject deceit that spreads conflict. The Lord hates pride, lies, and bloodshed. Division also meets his rejection. Parental teaching then guards against adultery, pictured as carrying fire against the body. The ending compares theft with marital betrayal and warns that money cannot settle the rage and shame an affair brings.
In this chapter
- A Rash Guarantee Needs Urgent Release Proverbs 6:1-5
The son may have pledged payment for another person's debt and sealed it with a handclasp.
- Small Delays Grow Into Overwhelming Need Proverbs 6:6-11
The lazy person is sent to watch an ant.
- Deceit Uses the Whole Person to Spread Harm Proverbs 6:12-19
A wicked person moves through life with crooked speech and hidden gestures of eyes, feet, and fingers.
- Parental Teaching Guards Against Adultery Proverbs 6:20-29
Both parents' teaching is to remain close within the son's heart.
- Money Cannot Settle Every Betrayal Proverbs 6:30-35
A hungry thief can be understood, yet still owes a heavy repayment when caught.
Central truth
Rash promises, neglected work, deceit, and adultery create traps that wise instruction exposes before their cost takes hold.
Scripture beside the summary
Proverbs · King James Version · 35Proverbs 6:1-5
A Rash Guarantee Needs Urgent Release
The son may have pledged payment for another person's debt and sealed it with a handclasp. His own words have trapped him. The danger is real. The parent urges immediate effort to gain release: humble himself, approach the other party, and press the matter rather than resting as though nothing has changed. A hunted deer or trapped bird supplies the picture of urgency. The advice treats the promise as a real obligation, not empty speech that can be ignored. Once words place his future in another person's hands, undoing the risk requires action.
In everyday life
A newly employed worker reads the guarantee he signed for a friend's loan and sees that he owes the full amount if payments stop. He arranges a meeting with the lender and borrower that morning to seek a formal release. Embarrassment no longer seems a reason to delay. Proverbs gives urgent moral counsel, not a detailed modern debt procedure.
Notice
Proverbs 6:2 The trap is made from the son's own words. The warning treats a spoken pledge as an action with consequences, not something less serious than a physical act.
Proverbs 6:1-5
King James Version1My son, if thou be surety for thy friend, if thou hast stricken thy hand with a stranger,
2Thou art snared with the words of thy mouth, thou art taken with the words of thy mouth.
3Do this now, my son, and deliver thyself, when thou art come into the hand of thy friend; go, humble thyself, and make sure thy friend.
4Give not sleep to thine eyes, nor slumber to thine eyelids.
5Deliver thyself as a roe from the hand of the hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler.
Proverbs 6:6-11
Small Delays Grow Into Overwhelming Need
The lazy person is sent to watch an ant. Without a visible overseer driving each action, it gathers food at the proper season and stores what it will need. The parent then asks how long the sleeper will remain in bed. Repeated small demands for more rest can end in poverty arriving with the force of an armed attacker. The point is not that all poverty proves laziness. This warning follows a particular habit of putting off available work until the chance to prepare has passed.
In everyday life
A market grower leaves seed trays unfilled each morning while telling himself there is still time. Beside him, another grower plants a few rows daily without waiting for reminders. When the selling season opens, one stall has seedlings and the other is bare. Small delays have become a large shortage. Proverbs makes the approaching need more severe than a missed sales week.
Notice
Proverbs 6:8 The ant gathers when food is available. The example concerns timely preparation, not constant activity without regard to seasons or actual need.
Proverbs 6:6-11
King James Version6Go to the ant, thou sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise:
7Which having no guide, overseer, or ruler,
8Provideth her meat in the summer, and gathereth her food in the harvest.
9How long wilt thou sleep, O sluggard? when wilt thou arise out of thy sleep?
10Yet a little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to sleep:
11So shall thy poverty come as one that travelleth, and thy want as an armed man.
Proverbs 6:12-19
Deceit Uses the Whole Person to Spread Harm
A wicked person moves through life with crooked speech and hidden gestures of eyes, feet, and fingers. The heart plans harm and spreads quarrels. Sudden ruin without remedy is the warned result. The teaching then lists what the Lord hates: proud looks, lies, innocent bloodshed, evil plans, eager steps towards harm, false testimony, and division among close companions. The list moves across body, thought, speech, and shared life. Deceit is not only a private weakness. It recruits many parts of the person to injure others and break trust.
In everyday life
A team captain notices two players exchanging winks while passing different accounts of a dispute to their teammates. She brings the messages together and shows how the small gestures support a larger attempt to split the group. The harm is planned, not a single careless remark. Proverbs places deceit and division alongside grave wrongs hated by the Lord.
Notice
Proverbs 6:19 Spreading division closes the list beside false testimony. Damage to relationships is treated as serious wrongdoing, not a harmless use of persuasive skill.
Proverbs 6:12-19
King James Version12A naughty person, a wicked man, walketh with a froward mouth.
13He winketh with his eyes, he speaketh with his feet, he teacheth with his fingers;
14Frowardness is in his heart, he deviseth mischief continually; he soweth discord.
15Therefore shall his calamity come suddenly; suddenly shall he be broken without remedy.
16These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him:
17A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood,
18An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief,
19A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren.
Proverbs 6:20-29
Parental Teaching Guards Against Adultery
Both parents' teaching is to remain close within the son's heart. It will guide him awake and guard him at rest, like light along a path. Correction is a way towards life. It protects against flattering sexual temptation and the desire stirred by another woman's beauty. The warning describes loss of goods and danger to life, then asks whether fire held against clothing can leave it unburned. Adultery with a neighbour's wife likewise carries consequences. Attraction does not cancel the harm built into betrayal of that bond.
In everyday life
An office administrator deletes an invitation to turn a work trip into a concealed affair. He remembers a trusted mentor asking what the secrecy itself already means. The appeal has not vanished, but he stops treating it as harmless attention. He makes the ordinary travel arrangements instead. Proverbs compares adultery's consequences to unavoidable burns from fire.
Notice
Proverbs 6:27 The fire question makes the consequence inseparable from the act. The warning does not treat betrayal as safe merely because the person hopes to escape discovery.
Proverbs 6:20-29
King James Version20My son, keep thy father’s commandment, and forsake not the law of thy mother:
21Bind them continually upon thine heart, and tie them about thy neck.
22When thou goest, it shall lead thee; when thou sleepest, it shall keep thee; and when thou awakest, it shall talk with thee.
23For the commandment is a lamp; and the law is light; and reproofs of instruction are the way of life:
24To keep thee from the evil woman, from the flattery of the tongue of a strange woman.
25Lust not after her beauty in thine heart; neither let her take thee with her eyelids.
26For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread: and the adulteress will hunt for the precious life.
27Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes not be burned?
28Can one go upon hot coals, and his feet not be burned?
29So he that goeth in to his neighbour’s wife; whosoever toucheth her shall not be innocent.
Proverbs 6:30-35
Money Cannot Settle Every Betrayal
A hungry thief can be understood, yet still owes a heavy repayment when caught. Even the contents of his house can be needed to meet it. Adultery is then set beside that loss. The offender lacks judgement and brings harm on himself, with wounds and lasting disgrace. A betrayed husband's jealousy burns into vengeance, and gifts or ransom will not satisfy him. The warning does not approve every act of revenge. It states that this breach cannot be managed like a bill whose payment restores all that was broken.
In everyday life
An unfaithful spouse offers to pay every legal cost and buy a new home as though that will settle the betrayal. The other spouse leaves the proposal unopened and asks for space. Money can address expenses, but it cannot purchase restored trust. The offer meets a wound it cannot price. Proverbs also warns of a jealous husband's violent anger.
Notice
Proverbs 6:35 The refusal of gifts ends the warning. Adultery's cost is not a fixed sum that the offender can pay and then regard the relationship as repaired.
Proverbs 6:30-35
King James Version30Men do not despise a thief, if he steal to satisfy his soul when he is hungry;
31But if he be found, he shall restore sevenfold; he shall give all the substance of his house.
32But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.
33A wound and dishonour shall he get; and his reproach shall not be wiped away.
34For jealousy is the rage of a man: therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance.
35He will not regard any ransom; neither will he rest content, though thou givest many gifts.
Details worth noticing
The opening image
Proverbs 6:1 begins with “My son, if thou be surety for thy friend, if thou hast stricken thy hand with a stranger,”
Where the chapter turns
Proverbs 6:15 forms a natural hinge: “Therefore shall his calamity come suddenly; suddenly shall he be broken without remedy.”
The final note
Proverbs 6:35 leaves the reader with “He will not regard any ransom; neither will he rest content, though thou givest many gifts.”
A word trail through the chapter
The words sleep, hand, heart, woman, feet, friend help reveal the chapter’s repeated concerns.
KJV words made clear
- surety
- A person who promises to pay another person's debt if needed.
- sluggard
- Someone who habitually avoids work or effort.
- naughty
- Wicked or worthless here, stronger than the modern sense of mildly misbehaving.
- sevenfold
- Seven times the original amount or measure.
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