The big picture
Wisdom is to be kept as close as family and guarded like eyesight. A parent tells his son why. He then describes watching an inexperienced young man approach a dangerous house at night. A married woman meets him with bold affection, food, perfume, and assurances that her husband is away. The scene slows over her persuasive words before showing the young man following. The parent ends by warning that many have fallen along this route and that the house leads towards death.
In this chapter
- Wisdom Must Be Kept as Close as Kin Proverbs 7:1-5
The commands deserve the care given to the pupil of an eye.
- A Young Man Approaches the Dangerous Corner Proverbs 7:6-12
Looking through a window, the parent sees an inexperienced young man among other youths.
- Food and Secrecy Make the Offer Attractive Proverbs 7:13-20
The woman catches and kisses him, then speaks boldly.
- Persuasion Wins While the Cost Stays Hidden Proverbs 7:21-23
Her smooth and repeated speech persuades the young man to yield.
- The Parent Calls for a Different Direction Proverbs 7:24-27
The parent turns from the observed scene back to the children and asks close attention.
Central truth
The young man's response to calculated flattery shows why wisdom must guard desire before an invitation draws him onto a deadly path.
Scripture beside the summary
Proverbs · King James Version · 27Proverbs 7:1-5
Wisdom Must Be Kept as Close as Kin
The commands deserve the care given to the pupil of an eye. The son is told to store the parent's words. They are to be tied to his fingers and written within the heart. The images make instruction both remembered and ready for action. Wisdom is to be called a sister and understanding a close relative. This chosen closeness protects against the flatterer outside the rightful marriage bond. The defence begins before her invitation arrives. A trusted inner guide needs a nearer place than the voice trying to draw him away.
In everyday life
A climbing student places the agreed safety card inside the pocket she opens before every ascent. She can repeat the checks from memory and treats them as part of going out with her trusted team. The next tempting shortcut meets guidance already close at hand. Proverbs gives wisdom the intimacy of kinship in guarding against sexual betrayal.
Notice
Proverbs 7:4 Calling wisdom a sister makes the relationship close and trusted. The protective voice is to be familiar before the competing flatterer speaks.
Proverbs 7:1-5
King James Version1My son, keep my words, and lay up my commandments with thee.
2Keep my commandments, and live; and my law as the apple of thine eye.
3Bind them upon thy fingers, write them upon the table of thine heart.
4Say unto wisdom, Thou art my sister; and call understanding thy kinswoman:
5That they may keep thee from the strange woman, from the stranger which flattereth with her words.
Proverbs 7:6-12
A Young Man Approaches the Dangerous Corner
Looking through a window, the parent sees an inexperienced young man among other youths. He lacks sound judgement and takes the street near the woman's corner. Evening becomes night as he approaches her house. She comes to meet him, dressed to attract sexual attention and skilled in hiding her intent. Restless and loud, she waits in streets and at corners. The scene places both approach and encounter before any agreement. His feet are already choosing a direction while his understanding is weak, and she is ready to use that weakness.
In everyday life
A festival volunteer leaves his friends and drifts towards a private after-party he was warned involves deceitful invitations. He pauses near the entrance as an organiser comes out with a flattering welcome. He has agreed to nothing yet. His route has still placed him within the appeal. Proverbs describes a planned adulterous encounter rather than a party's uncertain risks.
Notice
Proverbs 7:8 The young man is already heading towards the woman's house before she speaks. The account gives his chosen route a role alongside her later persuasion.
Proverbs 7:6-12
King James Version6For at the window of my house I looked through my casement,
7And beheld among the simple ones, I discerned among the youths, a young man void of understanding,
8Passing through the street near her corner; and he went the way to her house,
9In the twilight, in the evening, in the black and dark night:
10And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and subtil of heart.
11(She is loud and stubborn; her feet abide not in her house:
12Now is she without, now in the streets, and lieth in wait at every corner.)
Proverbs 7:13-20
Food and Secrecy Make the Offer Attractive
The woman catches and kisses him, then speaks boldly. She says she has made peace offerings, worship gifts from which food could be shared, and fulfilled her vows. Her claim to have sought him gives the meeting a personal appeal. She describes fine bed coverings from Egypt, a neighbouring land known here for its linen, and fragrant spices. She invites a night of sexual pleasure. Her husband has taken money away on business. He will return later. She makes the betrayal sound pleasant and safe from discovery.
In everyday life
A sales representative receives a private invitation promising dinner, special attention, and assurance that the host's spouse will not return until next week. He reads how each possible hesitation has already been answered in the message. The offer mixes pleasure with secrecy. He sets the phone down before replying. Proverbs exposes a calculated invitation to adultery.
Notice
Proverbs 7:19 The absent husband is part of the persuasion, not a missing detail. The woman's reassurance assumes that avoiding discovery is enough to make the act acceptable.
Proverbs 7:13-20
King James Version13So she caught him, and kissed him, and with an impudent face said unto him,
14I have peace offerings with me; this day have I payed my vows.
15Therefore came I forth to meet thee, diligently to seek thy face, and I have found thee.
16I have decked my bed with coverings of tapestry, with carved works, with fine linen of Egypt.
17I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon.
18Come, let us take our fill of love until the morning: let us solace ourselves with loves.
19For the goodman is not at home, he is gone a long journey:
20He hath taken a bag of money with him, and will come home at the day appointed.
Proverbs 7:21-23
Persuasion Wins While the Cost Stays Hidden
Her smooth and repeated speech persuades the young man to yield. He follows at once, and the images change sharply. He is like an ox led to slaughter, a fool going towards punishment, or a bird rushing into a trap. A piercing wound names the bodily cost in the picture. The point is his failure to grasp what is at stake. He feels led towards pleasure, while the parent describes a path that threatens life. The contrast between his view and the warned outcome makes the surrender frightening.
In everyday life
A trainee investor signs a scheme's final page after a long call full of praise and promised returns. He smiles at the welcome message without reading the clause that puts his savings at risk. The persuader's account fills his view while the cost stays outside it. Proverbs describes the much deeper personal ruin of an adulterous path.
Notice
Proverbs 7:23 The bird does not know its life is at stake. The comparison concerns blindness to consequence, not a lack of movement or enthusiasm in following the invitation.
Proverbs 7:21-23
King James Version21With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him.
22He goeth after her straightway, as an ox goeth to the slaughter, or as a fool to the correction of the stocks;
23Till a dart strike through his liver; as a bird hasteth to the snare, and knoweth not that it is for his life.
Proverbs 7:24-27
The Parent Calls for a Different Direction
The parent turns from the observed scene back to the children and asks close attention. Hearts must not lean towards the woman's ways, nor feet stray along her paths. Many have been wounded and even strong people have fallen through her. The danger is not limited to one unusually weak young man. Her house is described as a route to the realm of death. The warning ends at the destination rather than the decorated room. The children are asked to judge the invitation by that end before giving their desire a path.
In everyday life
A sports coach stops an athlete from accepting a concealed sponsorship deal and shows him earlier cases where strong careers collapsed under the same terms. Talent did not protect those who accepted the trap. The athlete puts the pen aside and reads the full agreement. Proverbs warns about sexual unfaithfulness, whose cost reaches beyond public success.
Notice
Proverbs 7:26 Strong people are included among those brought down. The warning denies that confidence or past strength makes someone immune to this kind of temptation.
Proverbs 7:24-27
King James Version24Hearken unto me now therefore, O ye children, and attend to the words of my mouth.
25Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths.
26For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her.
27Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death.
Details worth noticing
The opening image
Proverbs 7:1 begins with “My son, keep my words, and lay up my commandments with thee.”
Where the chapter turns
Proverbs 7:15 forms a natural hinge: “Therefore came I forth to meet thee, diligently to seek thy face, and I have found thee.”
The final note
Proverbs 7:27 leaves the reader with “Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death.”
A word trail through the chapter
The words house, heart, keep, words, commandments, corner help reveal the chapter’s repeated concerns.
KJV words made clear
- apple of thine eye
- The pupil of the eye, an image of something guarded with great care.
- casement
- A window opening or its lattice through which a person looks.
- goodman
- The husband or master of the household in this older use.
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