25:32And David said to Abigail, Blessed be the LORD God of Israel, which sent thee this day to meet me:
25:33And blessed be thy advice, and blessed be thou, which hast kept me this day from coming to shed blood, and from avenging myself with mine own hand.
25:34For in very deed, as the LORD God of Israel liveth, which hath kept me back from hurting thee, except thou hadst hasted and come to meet me, surely there had not been left unto Nabal by the morning light any that pisseth against the wall.
25:35So David received of her hand that which she had brought him, and said unto her, Go up in peace to thine house; see, I have hearkened to thy voice, and have accepted thy person.
25:36And Abigail came to Nabal; and, behold, he held a feast in his house, like the feast of a king; and Nabal’s heart was merry within him, for he was very drunken: wherefore she told him nothing, less or more, until the morning light.
25:37But it came to pass in the morning, when the wine was gone out of Nabal, and his wife had told him these things, that his heart died within him, and he became as a stone.
25:38And it came to pass about ten days after, that the LORD smote Nabal, that he died.
25:39And when David heard that Nabal was dead, he said, Blessed be the LORD, that hath pleaded the cause of my reproach from the hand of Nabal, and hath kept his servant from evil: for the LORD hath returned the wickedness of Nabal upon his own head. And David sent and communed with Abigail, to take her to him to wife.
25:40And when the servants of David were come to Abigail to Carmel, they spake unto her, saying, David sent us unto thee, to take thee to him to wife.
25:41And she arose, and bowed herself on her face to the earth, and said, Behold, let thine handmaid be a servant to wash the feet of the servants of my lord.
25:42And Abigail hasted, and arose, and rode upon an ass, with five damsels of hers that went after her; and she went after the messengers of David, and became his wife.
Nabal's wealth receives a livestock count; Abigail's understanding receives the first judgment about her. Three thousand sheep and a thousand goats establish what the household owns. The next verse establishes that its best judgment does not belong to its owner. The Book of First Samuel calls him churlish and evil before the dispute begins. That assessment is not something David has to supply after being offended.
David's greeting piles up peace: to Nabal, to his house, to everything he has. Nabal's answer piles up possession: my bread, my water, my flesh, my shearers. He asks who David is while identifying him as Jesse's son and placing him among runaway servants. The reply is more than a refusal of food. It assigns David a position beneath the one his messengers have claimed.
David answers with swords. The repeated instruction and the men's obedience make the escalation brutally plain: ten messengers have returned with an insult, and about four hundred armed men set out in response. Abigail has not spoken yet. The judgment credited to her in the introduction is conspicuously absent from the men's exchange.