Genesis 42–45
Joseph forgives his brothers
Ages 8 to 11

The account
A severe famine reached Canaan, where Jacob and his family lived. Jacob heard that food was available in Egypt, so he sent ten of his sons there to buy grain. Benjamin stayed home.
Joseph was now governor over Egypt and was the man who sold grain to the people. His brothers bowed before him. Joseph knew them, but they did not know him. He accused them of being spies and told them to bring Benjamin to prove that they had spoken truthfully. Simeon remained in Egypt while the others returned home with food. Joseph also had their money placed back in their sacks.
When the food ran out, the brothers had to return to Egypt. Judah promised Jacob that he would bring Benjamin home safely. In Egypt, Joseph welcomed them to a meal and saw Benjamin again.
Before they left, Joseph ordered his silver cup to be placed in Benjamin's sack. The cup was found, and the brothers returned to Joseph. Judah begged to stay as a servant in Benjamin's place so Benjamin could go home to their father.
Then Joseph sent everyone else from the room and told his brothers who he was. They were troubled, but Joseph told them not to be grieved or angry with themselves. He said God had sent him ahead to preserve life during the famine. Joseph kissed his brothers, wept with them, and told them to bring their father and households to Egypt.
Memory verse
Now therefore be not grieved, nor angry with yourselves, that ye sold me hither: for God did send me before you to preserve life.
Genesis 45:5
Talk about it
- Why did Joseph's brothers travel to Egypt?
- What did Judah offer to do when the cup was found in Benjamin's sack?
- What did Joseph tell his brothers after he told them who he was?
Try this
Fold a sheet of paper into four boxes. Draw the brothers arriving in Egypt, their return with Benjamin, Judah speaking for Benjamin, and Joseph telling his brothers who he was, then number the pictures in order.
What can we learn?
A lesson we can draw from this account is that mercy can follow even after serious wrong has been done. Joseph did not repay his brothers by sending them away hungry; he provided for them and their family.
Ages 12 to 15
The account
A severe famine spread through the land, including Canaan, where Jacob and his family lived. Egypt had grain, so Jacob sent ten of his sons there to buy food. He kept Benjamin, Joseph's younger brother, at home.
The brothers did not know that Joseph, whom they had sold, was now governor over Egypt and controlled the sale of grain. When they came before him, they bowed down. Joseph recognized them, but they did not recognize him. He remembered his earlier dreams about them. Joseph accused them of being spies and questioned them about their family. When they said they had a younger brother at home, Joseph required them to bring Benjamin to Egypt. After keeping all of them in custody for three days, he held Simeon and sent the others back with grain. Without their knowing it, he also had their money returned in their sacks.
During this trouble, the brothers spoke among themselves about their guilt concerning Joseph. They did not know that Joseph understood them. He turned away and wept.
The famine continued, and the food from Egypt ran out. Jacob finally allowed Benjamin to go with them after Judah promised to answer for his safety. When Joseph saw Benjamin, he arranged a meal for the brothers. Later, Joseph ordered his steward to fill their sacks with food and place Joseph's silver cup in Benjamin's sack. After they left, the steward overtook them, searched the sacks, and found the cup with Benjamin.
The brothers returned to Joseph. Joseph said Benjamin would remain as his servant, but Judah pleaded for him. Judah explained what losing Benjamin would do to their father and offered to remain as a servant in Benjamin's place.
At that point Joseph could no longer hold back. He sent the Egyptians from the room, wept aloud, and made himself known to his brothers. They were troubled and could not answer him. Joseph called them near and identified himself as the brother they had sold into Egypt. He told them not to be grieved or angry with themselves because God had sent him ahead to preserve life. The famine had lasted two years, and five more years remained. Joseph told them to bring Jacob and their households to Egypt, where he would provide for them. He embraced Benjamin, kissed his brothers, wept with them, and afterward they talked with him. Pharaoh also welcomed Joseph's family to come to Egypt.
Memory verse
Now therefore be not grieved, nor angry with yourselves, that ye sold me hither: for God did send me before you to preserve life.
Genesis 45:5
Think about it
- Why did Joseph require his brothers to bring Benjamin to Egypt?
- Why did Judah offer to remain as a servant in Benjamin's place?
- What does the brothers' conversation about their guilt show about how they remembered what they had done to Joseph?
- What does Joseph's explanation in Genesis 45 show about how he understood God's work during the famine?
Going deeper
Joseph's brothers bowing before him recalls the dreams Joseph had earlier in Genesis 37, and Genesis 42 says Joseph remembered those dreams. This account also moves Jacob's family toward Egypt. In Genesis 46 the family comes there, and Egypt becomes the setting in which the Book of Exodus begins.
What can we learn?
One lesson we can draw from this account is that admitting wrong and choosing mercy can lead away from revenge. Joseph's words also show that he understood his place in Egypt as something God used to preserve lives during the famine.

