1 Kings 3

Solomon asks for wisdom

Ages 8 to 11

Solomon asks for wisdom

Memory verse

Give therefore thy servant an understanding heart to judge thy people, that I may discern between good and bad: for who is able to judge this thy so great a people?

1 Kings 3:9

Talk about it

  • What did the LORD invite Solomon to ask for in the dream?
  • What did Solomon ask God to give him?
  • How did the case of the two women show Solomon using wisdom?

Try this

On a sheet of paper, make two lists: things Solomon could have asked for, and what he actually asked for. Then circle the request that would help him serve the people he was responsible for.

What can we learn?

A lesson we can draw from this account is that wisdom is worth asking for, especially when our choices affect other people. Solomon recognized that ruling well required more than power or wealth.

Ages 12 to 15

Memory verse

Give therefore thy servant an understanding heart to judge thy people, that I may discern between good and bad: for who is able to judge this thy so great a people?

1 Kings 3:9

Think about it

  • Why did Solomon ask for an understanding heart instead of wealth, long life or victory over enemies?
  • What does Solomon’s request show about how he understood the responsibility of being king?
  • Why did the dispute over the living baby require more than simply listening to two opposite claims?
  • What does the chapter show about the source of Solomon’s wisdom?

Going deeper

The next chapter says God gave Solomon wisdom and understanding in very great measure, and people came to hear his wisdom. First Kings also records Solomon’s proverbs and songs. Chapter 3 therefore introduces a gift that becomes one of the defining features of Solomon’s reign, while keeping its source clear: the wisdom was given by God.

What can we learn?

A lesson we can draw from this account is that good leadership begins with recognizing the limits of our own understanding. Wisdom is especially important when decisions affect the lives and well-being of other people.