The big picture
Solomon, the king of Israel, the people now under his rule, has secured the throne. His next choices concern marriage, worship, and how to govern. He marries a daughter of Pharaoh, the king of Egypt, a neighbouring kingdom. The temple has not yet been built. God meets Solomon in a dream and offers him a gift. A later dispute between two mothers will show what his choice means for people seeking judgment.
In this chapter
- Solomon Worships Before the Temple Is Built 1 Kings 3:1-4
Solomon forms a marriage alliance with Egypt's king and brings his new wife to David's city.
- A Young King Asks for Understanding 1 Kings 3:5-9
God appears to Solomon in a dream at Gibeon and invites him to ask for a gift.
- God Gives Wisdom and Unasked Gifts 1 Kings 3:10-15
God is pleased that Solomon asks for judgment instead of long life, wealth, or his enemies' deaths.
- The True Mother Chooses Her Child's Life 1 Kings 3:16-28
Two prostitutes who share a house bring a dispute over one living baby.
Central truth
God gives Solomon the understanding he seeks, and a dispute over a baby reveals that gift through his judgment.
Scripture beside the summary
1 Kings · King James Version · 281 Kings 3:1-4
Solomon Worships Before the Temple Is Built
Solomon forms a marriage alliance with Egypt's king and brings his new wife to David's city. His palace, God's house, and the city wall are still to be finished. The people sacrifice at high places, local sites of worship, because there is no temple yet. Solomon loves God and follows his father's commands, but also uses these sites. He goes to Gibeon, the chief high place, and offers a thousand burnt offerings. His devotion is stated alongside a practice that the account carefully notes.
In everyday life
The chapel leader gathers worshippers in a borrowed hall while their building remains unfinished. She prepares the room with care, though the arrangement is temporary and raises questions about where the group should meet. Their shared devotion continues during the delay. Solomon offers animal sacrifices at a high place, not worship in rented premises.
Notice
1 Kings 3:3 Solomon's love for God is followed by a qualification about the high places. The account records both, rather than making either fact erase the other.
1 Kings 3:1-4
King James Version1And Solomon made affinity with Pharaoh king of Egypt, and took Pharaoh’s daughter, and brought her into the city of David, until he had made an end of building his own house, and the house of the LORD, and the wall of Jerusalem round about.
2Only the people sacrificed in high places, because there was no house built unto the name of the LORD, until those days.
3And Solomon loved the LORD, walking in the statutes of David his father: only he sacrificed and burnt incense in high places.
4And the king went to Gibeon to sacrifice there; for that was the great high place: a thousand burnt offerings did Solomon offer upon that altar.
1 Kings 3:5-9
A Young King Asks for Understanding
God appears to Solomon in a dream at Gibeon and invites him to ask for a gift. Solomon recalls God's kindness to David and the gift of a son to follow him. He then admits how little prepared he feels to lead. Calling himself a child expresses his need for help before a vast people. He asks for a heart able to hear and judge well, distinguishing good from bad. The burden of serving God's people shapes his request more than a wish for personal gain.
In everyday life
A newly appointed ward sister sits with her mentor before taking charge of the next shift. Offered a choice of support, she asks for help judging difficult cases rather than a larger room. The patients' needs make her limits clear to her. God grants Solomon wisdom directly, rather than arranging professional training.
Notice
1 Kings 3:9 Solomon calls Israel God's people when asking for wisdom. His request treats the throne as care for people belonging to God, not as private ownership.
1 Kings 3:5-9
King James Version5In Gibeon the LORD appeared to Solomon in a dream by night: and God said, Ask what I shall give thee.
6And Solomon said, Thou hast shewed unto thy servant David my father great mercy, according as he walked before thee in truth, and in righteousness, and in uprightness of heart with thee; and thou hast kept for him this great kindness, that thou hast given him a son to sit on his throne, as it is this day.
7And now, O LORD my God, thou hast made thy servant king instead of David my father: and I am but a little child: I know not how to go out or come in.
8And thy servant is in the midst of thy people which thou hast chosen, a great people, that cannot be numbered nor counted for multitude.
9Give therefore thy servant an understanding heart to judge thy people, that I may discern between good and bad: for who is able to judge this thy so great a people?
1 Kings 3:10-15
God Gives Wisdom and Unasked Gifts
God is pleased that Solomon asks for judgment instead of long life, wealth, or his enemies' deaths. He promises a wise heart unlike any before or after him. Riches and honour are added even though Solomon did not request them. A longer life is also offered if he keeps God's ways and commands. Solomon wakes and recognises the dream. He returns to Jerusalem, stands before God's covenant chest, and offers sacrifices. A feast for his servants follows. The promised gifts lead first to worship and shared food.
In everyday life
The apprenticeship patron approves a young builder's request for skilled guidance, then adds tools and a workshop place. The apprentice asked for the means to do good work, not the extra gifts. He opens the tool chest with the team who will use it. God's promises include unmatched wisdom and a condition of lifelong obedience.
Notice
1 Kings 3:14 Length of life has a stated condition: Solomon must keep God's ways. The other gifts do not make future obedience irrelevant to his reign.
1 Kings 3:10-15
King James Version10And the speech pleased the Lord, that Solomon had asked this thing.
11And God said unto him, Because thou hast asked this thing, and hast not asked for thyself long life; neither hast asked riches for thyself, nor hast asked the life of thine enemies; but hast asked for thyself understanding to discern judgment;
12Behold, I have done according to thy words: lo, I have given thee a wise and an understanding heart; so that there was none like thee before thee, neither after thee shall any arise like unto thee.
13And I have also given thee that which thou hast not asked, both riches, and honour: so that there shall not be any among the kings like unto thee all thy days.
14And if thou wilt walk in my ways, to keep my statutes and my commandments, as thy father David did walk, then I will lengthen thy days.
15And Solomon awoke; and, behold, it was a dream. And he came to Jerusalem, and stood before the ark of the covenant of the LORD, and offered up burnt offerings, and offered peace offerings, and made a feast to all his servants.
1 Kings 3:16-28
The True Mother Chooses Her Child's Life
Two prostitutes who share a house bring a dispute over one living baby. One says the other child died at night and was exchanged for hers. There were no other witnesses, and each claims the living son. Solomon calls for a sword and orders the baby divided. The true mother begs him to give the child away alive; the other accepts division. Solomon gives the baby to the woman who sought its safety. Israel hears of the judgment and recognises God's wisdom in him.
In everyday life
A custody mediator watches a parent give up a disputed visit rather than drag a distressed child through another confrontation. The cost of yielding is real, yet the child's welfare comes first. Her notes record that choice alongside the competing claims. Solomon tests the mothers with a threatened killing, which this scene does not repeat.
Notice
1 Kings 3:26 Saving her child matters more to the mother than keeping her own claim. Her response gives Solomon evidence that the two conflicting speeches alone did not provide.
1 Kings 3:16-28
King James Version16Then came there two women, that were harlots, unto the king, and stood before him.
17And the one woman said, O my lord, I and this woman dwell in one house; and I was delivered of a child with her in the house.
18And it came to pass the third day after that I was delivered, that this woman was delivered also: and we were together; there was no stranger with us in the house, save we two in the house.
19And this woman’s child died in the night; because she overlaid it.
20And she arose at midnight, and took my son from beside me, while thine handmaid slept, and laid it in her bosom, and laid her dead child in my bosom.
21And when I rose in the morning to give my child suck, behold, it was dead: but when I had considered it in the morning, behold, it was not my son, which I did bear.
22And the other woman said, Nay; but the living is my son, and the dead is thy son. And this said, No; but the dead is thy son, and the living is my son. Thus they spake before the king.
23Then said the king, The one saith, This is my son that liveth, and thy son is the dead: and the other saith, Nay; but thy son is the dead, and my son is the living.
24And the king said, Bring me a sword. And they brought a sword before the king.
25And the king said, Divide the living child in two, and give half to the one, and half to the other.
26Then spake the woman whose the living child was unto the king, for her bowels yearned upon her son, and she said, O my lord, give her the living child, and in no wise slay it. But the other said, Let it be neither mine nor thine, but divide it.
27Then the king answered and said, Give her the living child, and in no wise slay it: she is the mother thereof.
28And all Israel heard of the judgment which the king had judged; and they feared the king: for they saw that the wisdom of God was in him, to do judgment.
Details worth noticing
The opening image
1 Kings 3:1 begins with “And Solomon made affinity with Pharaoh king of Egypt, and took Pharaoh’s daughter, and brought her into the city of David, until he had made an end of…”
Where the chapter turns
1 Kings 3:16 forms a natural hinge: “Then came there two women, that were harlots, unto the king, and stood before him.”
The final note
1 Kings 3:28 leaves the reader with “And all Israel heard of the judgment which the king had judged; and they feared the king: for they saw that the wisdom of God was in him, to do judgment.”
A word trail through the chapter
The words king, child, LORD, asked, house, living help reveal the chapter’s repeated concerns.
KJV words made clear
- discern
- Tell the difference between things, especially right and wrong in a case brought for judgment.
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