The big picture
Naomi, a widow living in the town of Beth-lehem, wants a secure home for Ruth, her widowed daughter-in-law. Boaz, a relative who has given Ruth work and protection, is threshing barley nearby. Naomi sends Ruth to approach him after the evening meal. Ruth asks him to act as a close relative on her behalf. He welcomes the request but names another man with a nearer claim. Hope now depends on a matter still to be settled.
In this chapter
- Naomi Plans a Request for Lasting Care Ruth 3:1-5
Naomi seeks rest and well-being for Ruth, meaning a more settled future than gathering leftover grain.
- Boaz Answers with Kindness and a Condition Ruth 3:6-13
Ruth follows Naomi's directions and lies at Boaz's feet.
- A Gift Accompanies the Unfinished Promise Ruth 3:14-18
Ruth stays at Boaz's feet until morning, then rises before people can recognise one another.
Central truth
Ruth asks Boaz for lasting care as a close relative, and he promises to act while respecting another man's prior claim.
Scripture beside the summary
Ruth · King James Version · 18Ruth 3:1-5
Naomi Plans a Request for Lasting Care
Naomi seeks rest and well-being for Ruth, meaning a more settled future than gathering leftover grain. She identifies Boaz as a relative and says he will work at the threshing floor that night. Ruth must wash, put on scent and dress, then wait until he has finished eating and drinking. She is to note where he lies, uncover his feet and lie down there. Naomi says he will tell her what to do. Ruth agrees to carry out the plan. The instructions lead toward a personal request, not another day's field work.
In everyday life
The tenancy adviser helps a widow prepare for a meeting about a permanent home. They discuss the person to approach, the timing and the request she needs to make. The widow agrees, knowing that preparation cannot decide the other person's answer. She still has to speak. Naomi's plan uses a private night encounter shaped by family obligations.
Notice
Ruth 3:1 Naomi's stated aim is rest and well-being for Ruth. The plan looks beyond the food already found in Boaz's field toward a more lasting form of care.
Ruth 3:1-5
King James Version1Then Naomi her mother in law said unto her, My daughter, shall I not seek rest for thee, that it may be well with thee?
2And now is not Boaz of our kindred, with whose maidens thou wast? Behold, he winnoweth barley to night in the threshingfloor.
3Wash thyself therefore, and anoint thee, and put thy raiment upon thee, and get thee down to the floor: but make not thyself known unto the man, until he shall have done eating and drinking.
4And it shall be, when he lieth down, that thou shalt mark the place where he shall lie, and thou shalt go in, and uncover his feet, and lay thee down; and he will tell thee what thou shalt do.
5And she said unto her, All that thou sayest unto me I will do.
Ruth 3:6-13
Boaz Answers with Kindness and a Condition
Ruth follows Naomi's directions and lies at Boaz's feet. At midnight he wakes in alarm and asks who is there. She names herself and asks him to spread his garment over her because he is a near relative. The request seeks his protection and the family role that goes with it. He praises her kindness in seeking him rather than young men. He promises to do what she asks, but a closer relative has first claim. If that man refuses, Boaz swears before God that he will act himself.
In everyday life
The estate trustee visits a widow in an inherited cottage and hears her request for help. He agrees that her need deserves action but explains that another relative must first decide whether to take the role. His willingness does not erase that person's prior place. He promises to follow through after the answer. Ruth's request also seeks marriage and continued family protection.
Notice
Ruth 3:12 Boaz confirms the family tie while naming a nearer relative. His kind answer includes a real limit that must be addressed before his promise can be completed.
Ruth 3:6-13
King James Version6And she went down unto the floor, and did according to all that her mother in law bade her.
7And when Boaz had eaten and drunk, and his heart was merry, he went to lie down at the end of the heap of corn: and she came softly, and uncovered his feet, and laid her down.
8And it came to pass at midnight, that the man was afraid, and turned himself: and, behold, a woman lay at his feet.
9And he said, Who art thou? And she answered, I am Ruth thine handmaid: spread therefore thy skirt over thine handmaid; for thou art a near kinsman.
10And he said, Blessed be thou of the LORD, my daughter: for thou hast shewed more kindness in the latter end than at the beginning, inasmuch as thou followedst not young men, whether poor or rich.
11And now, my daughter, fear not; I will do to thee all that thou requirest: for all the city of my people doth know that thou art a virtuous woman.
12And now it is true that I am thy near kinsman: howbeit there is a kinsman nearer than I.
13Tarry this night, and it shall be in the morning, that if he will perform unto thee the part of a kinsman, well; let him do the kinsman’s part: but if he will not do the part of a kinsman to thee, then will I do the part of a kinsman to thee, as the LORD liveth: lie down until the morning.
Ruth 3:14-18
A Gift Accompanies the Unfinished Promise
Ruth stays at Boaz's feet until morning, then rises before people can recognise one another. He wants the visit kept private. Before she leaves, he fills her covering with six measures of barley so she will not return to Naomi empty-handed. Ruth tells Naomi all that happened and explains the gift. Naomi tells her to wait. She trusts that Boaz will finish the matter that same day. The barley gives immediate support while the larger question remains open. Ruth has acted; the next decision rests with Boaz and the nearer relative.
In everyday life
The adoption applicant leaves a meeting with practical support but without the final decision. At home, her sister helps arrange the supplies and reminds her that the next step belongs to the case officer. Waiting follows real work already done. The gift is useful even before the outcome is known. Boaz's promise concerns a widow and her family's future.
Notice
Ruth 3:18 Naomi's advice changes from taking action to waiting for an answer. She expects Boaz to work promptly, but Ruth cannot settle the remaining question herself.
Ruth 3:14-18
King James Version14And she lay at his feet until the morning: and she rose up before one could know another. And he said, Let it not be known that a woman came into the floor.
15Also he said, Bring the vail that thou hast upon thee, and hold it. And when she held it, he measured six measures of barley, and laid it on her: and she went into the city.
16And when she came to her mother in law, she said, Who art thou, my daughter? And she told her all that the man had done to her.
17And she said, These six measures of barley gave he me; for he said to me, Go not empty unto thy mother in law.
18Then said she, Sit still, my daughter, until thou know how the matter will fall: for the man will not be in rest, until he have finished the thing this day.
Details worth noticing
The opening image
Ruth 3:1 begins with “Then Naomi her mother in law said unto her, My daughter, shall I not seek rest for thee, that it may be well with thee?”
Where the chapter turns
Ruth 3:9 forms a natural hinge: “And he said, Who art thou? And she answered, I am Ruth thine handmaid: spread therefore thy skirt over thine handmaid; for thou art a near kinsman.”
The final note
Ruth 3:18 leaves the reader with “Then said she, Sit still, my daughter, until thou know how the matter will fall: for the man will not be in rest, until he have finished the thing this…”
A word trail through the chapter
The words kinsman, daughter, feet, mother, barley, floor help reveal the chapter’s repeated concerns.
KJV words made clear
- behold
- look, or pay close attention
- unto
- to
- thee
- you
- thou
- you
- thy
- your
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