18:13And it came to pass on the morrow, that Moses sat to judge the people: and the people stood by Moses from the morning unto the evening.
18:14And when Moses’ father in law saw all that he did to the people, he said, What is this thing that thou doest to the people? why sittest thou thyself alone, and all the people stand by thee from morning unto even?
18:15And Moses said unto his father in law, Because the people come unto me to enquire of God:
18:16When they have a matter, they come unto me; and I judge between one and another, and I do make them know the statutes of God, and his laws.
18:17And Moses’ father in law said unto him, The thing that thou doest is not good.
18:18Thou wilt surely wear away, both thou, and this people that is with thee: for this thing is too heavy for thee; thou art not able to perform it thyself alone.
18:19Hearken now unto my voice, I will give thee counsel, and God shall be with thee: Be thou for the people to God-ward, that thou mayest bring the causes unto God:
18:20And thou shalt teach them ordinances and laws, and shalt shew them the way wherein they must walk, and the work that they must do.
18:21Moreover thou shalt provide out of all the people able men, such as fear God, men of truth, hating covetousness; and place such over them, to be rulers of thousands, and rulers of hundreds, rulers of fifties, and rulers of tens:
18:22And let them judge the people at all seasons: and it shall be, that every great matter they shall bring unto thee, but every small matter they shall judge: so shall it be easier for thyself, and they shall bear the burden with thee.
18:23If thou shalt do this thing, and God command thee so, then thou shalt be able to endure, and all this people shall also go to their place in peace.
18:24So Moses hearkened to the voice of his father in law, and did all that he had said.
18:25And Moses chose able men out of all Israel, and made them heads over the people, rulers of thousands, rulers of hundreds, rulers of fifties, and rulers of tens.
18:26And they judged the people at all seasons: the hard causes they brought unto Moses, but every small matter they judged themselves.
18:27And Moses let his father in law depart; and he went his way into his own land.
Seven daughters arrive home early, and their father notices. A man has rescued them from the shepherds and watered the flock, yet somehow the rescuer has been left at the well. Reuel's response has the briskness of somebody correcting a very obvious oversight. The man should at least have been offered bread. Hospitality begins here, not with a grand declaration, but with a missing guest at supper.
The daughters call Moses an Egyptian. The Book of Exodus has just shown him identifying the oppressed Hebrews as his brethren, so the description catches the gap between how he is known and how he is seen. Their father does not require that gap to be resolved before opening his household. The fugitive becomes a resident, then a husband and father.
Even so, Gershom's name keeps exile inside the new home. Moses can be content to dwell with this man and still call himself a stranger in a strange land. The welcome is real. It does not require the past to disappear.